English culture trap

1.You Have Matches is the closest me once the opportunity ascends a luxurious You Lun to go sightseeing. , I took two cups of cocktail to answer a room to enjoy in bar stage, a lady is encountered in road, she sees my hind laughing to say: “You Have Matches? ” I am stupefied, the answer says: “ is very sorry, I am 15 years ago with respect to smoke of Buddhist monastic discipline, do not have match so. She goes to ” knowingly immediately the meaning that I misunderstood her, seeming is to the dot says feel sorrily: “It's A Joke. ”Next, our mutual and awkward laugh, went away. After the event and friend chat when have dinner, I take the chance to consult that diurnal word to friend of an United States, his explanation says: “ sees your two tactics be being occupied because of her, want match intentionally with you for fun, this is a very common joke, not only well-meant, want to ask you need not to need to help however instead. ”(pick from " world daily " ) the degree that a kin and wife estrangement reached 2.Turn The Table to want to divorce. Receive kin telephone call several days ago, say they are in before walking into lawyer building, go appealing to be mixed at psychology first marital problem expert. Couple two sat calmly to talk a lot of times, mutual between much an understanding, little one suspiciouses, grouse, the result changes arms to be jade objects and silk fabrics. Say simple simple also, so saved this marriage. I am hit they are in heart glad, told this one news to also know their American friend likewise. This friend is quite excited, saying " acknowledgment is sacred again and again, thank sacred " , she still complemented a "He Turned The Table" . This word lets my heart in very uncomfortable, is she to show my kin is moved thick? My defend sb against an injustice says: "Won't, won't, he is very gentle, have gent demeanor very much, won't make opposite party with cloddish act pressing, won't make the other side yielding with high pressure. "Result, say who understands more not. Look at me the expression with that one unhappy face, 頓 of abrupt Mao Sai opened the friend, explain to me with another kind of method. Make me clear eventually, she is to say my kin " turned round situation " , the " table " that that "table" and I think of has nothing to do at all. Besides a bit further, this phrase also mixes Turn The Tables (on Someone) it doesn't matter of " table ' concerns, win instead of lose of its means To Suddenly Take A Position Of Strength Or Advantage That Was Formerly Held By Someone Else (, turn to be strong) infirmly, for example: "She Played Badly In The First Set, but Then She Turned The Tables On Her Opponent And Won The Match. (pick from " world daily " ) Turn The Tables On/upon Sb. Besides “ advocate; of guest easy ground turns round ” of phasic; turn the tables outside, still have “(and someone) the meaning of ” of exchange order of seats 3. Friend of colleague of Wearing Two Hats meets, little not mutual introduction. When the gentleman is introducing his colleague Larry to me, say he can be a very busy person: “He Is Wearing Two Hats. ”I say, you open what fun, he did not wear a hat at all. Larry replies with laughing all the time, it is gentleman carefully watch what sb is doing and saying, know I do not understand, help me seek chance to extricateoneself from an awkward position. Original, the gentleman is to show Larry holds the position of important post in hospital some branch, besides, still have oneself business, body of Larry of that is to say holds two duty concurrently, is not to wear two hats really.
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